Category: The deep stuff
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I’m scared of the person I may become in the future
Introduction I think there comes a time in everyone’s life where we begin to like who we are becoming. When we are able to look into the mirror and smile at what we see. When we are able to dive into the depths of our own hearts and embrace all that we truly are (both…
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Rediscovering the parts of yourself that you lost
I truly believe that in order to live your best and most authentic life, you need to be your best and most authentic self. When I was younger the one piece of advice I heard often was ‘ Just be yourself’. I always thought that this was the worst advice because it was so self-explanatory.…
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You are much more interesting than you realise
Sometimes when we look upon the life we have lived, we may feel as though it hasn’t been interesting. You may think that your life may seem normal and underwhelming but your life is 100% more interesting than you realise. I used to feel the exact same way about my life too. As I got…
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The smallest habits have the greatest impact
Introduction: When we think of the things we do daily that have a big impact on our lives, we often find ourselves thinking of the big things. But I believe that it is the small habits that have the greatest impacts on our lives. These could even be the habits that we don’t even acknowledge…
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You cannot change people; they must want to change
Introduction Throughout life we encounter a plethora of people. Sometimes there are people in our lives who we have such high expectations for. When these people do not meet these expectations we feel the responsibility to help them change in order to meet these expectations. But I’ve come to realise that people do not change…
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Activities to let your inner child out this summer
Introduction: As we grow older we are subjected to so much stress. Whether it is school, work or even your personal life, life can get serious real quick. And we accordingly have to also become more serious too. As of late, I’ve been doing a lot of research about healing and a lot of the…
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Why being kind is todays greatest strength
Introduction I wanted to write this blog post today because there is this misconception that kindness is a weakness. Growing up I was always told that I was too nice and that it was a bad thing. I was told that when people were rude to me I too should be rude back. But I…
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Being imperfect is the greatest form of perfection.
let me just start off by contradicting myself (which is always a good way to start). Perfection doesn’t exist. It is a concept with no actual substance. Like most things man-made it started of as innocent and has now paved the way to self-sabotage. I believe everybody is striving to reach some sort of perfection.…
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Navigating Life without Close Friends: Lessons Learned
Growing up I had no close friends. I grew up watching shows with beautiful friendships that were deep and meaningful. It was something that I had always wanted; to be able to call someone my best friend. A lot of the friendships I did have were all surface level and were not the deep and…
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The Beauty of an ordinary Life: Embracing the Mundane
This year I’ve been thinking a lot about Happiness. In particular a happy life. This was mainly as a result of struggling with university life and career choices. I began questioning why people who are doing everything they want to are still feeling unhappy. Then I had this realisation that I had no idea what…